Yes, it looks like us males are out of luck. Activision mistakenly left out female Call of Duty: Black Ops avatar clothing codes in the limited edition version of the game. The codes that were included were only for males. Therefore, they have remedied the problem by releasing two codes that can be redeemed over and over again. Any player with a female avatar can now have the SR Flight Suit and Woods Outfit suit. The following are Xbox 360 DLC codes.
SR 71 Flight Suit code:
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Woods Outfit code:r76bq-cr3mf-g2ttf-9g36r-bqwjd